heart or brain

"In a battle between our thought and feelings, you really had to listen to your feelings especially if that involve with some one you really like, because love comes from your feelings not from your thought, it comes from your heart not your brain."

I read this statement in Kevin’s blog and somehow I found it interesting. I do agree with this statement. There’s no wrong in saying that we had to listen to our feelings when it comes to love. And it is absolutely right that love comes from your heart and not from your brain. But I think if we happened to experience this kind of situation in the real world, it wouldn’t be as simple as what has been written above.

People often tell me not to give 100% of your heart to somebody if you wouldn’t want your heart to break. In other words, do not love someone to the full. Honestly I didn’t get that. How come a person loves somebody but in the same time does not give 100% of his / her heart? A friend of mine once said that the only way not giving all your heart to somebody is by keeping your mind clear and not affected by your feelings. Another hard thing to do.

I don’t know what would happen to other person if they were in the situation. All I know is I am a person of feelings. I nearly never ever chose thoughts over feelings. If you’re close to me, you’d know, I’m a stubbornly stupid little bitch.

Anyways, when you think a lot about how to love somebody and let your brain works harder than your heart, will you be able to love him / her truly? Our brains make decisions based on what’s good for us. So there’s always the possibility of falling into a relationship of advantages and benefits. If somebody brings you some benefits (financially, mentally, or sexually) your brain would tend to tell you to pick him / her. You want to be with them because they have money or power, or great sex appeal, or they just simply have the parent’s most wanted children in law character. You have to be careful. That’s not love.

But then if you purely use your feelings, your brain would stop thinking at the exact time that your senses would stop working. In times like this, pull yourself together and stay alerted!! Or you’ll be a great snack for those good-guy-looking bastardos.

Love is the most complicated thing God has ever created. At least that’s how it seems to me. Solving love related problems requires your brain, heart, and senses to be all switched on at all times. And I think a good relationship is the one with balance activity of hearts and brains, of bodies, minds, and souls.

I don’t know why I wrote another pointless post... don’t care larrr...







 

thousands of words

Picture can say thousands of words. Here are some pictures. I'll let them say the words but STILL let me do the captions... Enjoy!




Baby Raisin (Cookies) on her first day in my house.



Baby Rum (Thumper), he was still afraid to come out of the box where we carried him in from the pet shop.



This picture was taken on June. It was my cousin's wedding.



'Keroyokan' picture on my friend's wedding reception.



Me - Ivonne - Kucai, taken on Kucai's Bday at Chatterbox. The dresscode was orange.



Me, Debby and Hans in Senayan City. I saw beautiful shoes there, they were Nina. Would steal some money from somebody to have them. Gorgeous!



My sister, Anya(my niece), and Me after my aunt's funeral in Purworejo (Central Java). Look at Anya's tounge. Amazing! We call it "flower tounge".



Sunset view from the window of rumah duka.



The most recent picture of me and Adit, taken last Saturday after our dinner at The Cafe - Mulia. We were going to meet Lissa and Pipi but on the last minute Pipi cancelled because she was too tired after going to Pasaraya with Lissa. Yes! Hanging out with Lissa could be so exhausting.


 

*scratch*

I’ve been wondering why I feel a strange itchiness somewhere around my ass for the past 2 days. I just read Lissa’s blog and I know now, it’s you Lissa. I better publish this post immediately or it will become worst.

*scratching*

Okay, here you go:

THREE NAMES YOU GO BY:
1. Joan
2. Jojo
3. Jojon

THREE SCREEN NAMES YOU HAVE HAD:
1. Autumn girl
2. Miracle fountain
3. Baby pumpkin

THREE THINGS YOU LIKE ABOUT YOURSELF:
1. Funny
2. Smart
3. Gorgeous

THREE THINGS YOU DON'T LIKE ABOUT YOURSELF:
1. Big spender
2. Big hair
3. Big butt

THREE PARTS OF YOUR HERITAGE:
1. Jakarta
2. Central Java
3. Kelapa Gading

THREE THINGS THAT SCARE/CREEP YOU OUT:
1. Geckos
2. Porcelain dolls (which look like real humans)
3. Ghosts

THREE OF YOUR EVERYDAY ESSENTIALS:
1. Cell phones
2. Make-ups
3. Foods / snacks

THREE THINGS YOU ARE WEARING RITE NOW:
1. Office uniform (dark purple blazer & pants with white thin vertical stripes)
2. Black pointy pumps
3. Matching underwear

THREE (CURRENT) FAVOURITE BANDS/ARTIST:
1. Kelly Clarkson
2. Rod Steward
3. Jay Chou

THREE THINGS YOU WANT TO TRY IN THE NEXT 12 MONTHS:
1. Get the UK scholarship
2. Tattoo
3. Be a model in the add of a well-known brand

THREE THINGS YOU WANT IN A RELATIONSHIP (love included in the package):
1. Chemistry
2. Affection
3. Fun things

TWO TRUTHS AND A LIE:
1. I lost another 2 kilos
2. I’m a dirty person
3. I miss my friends


Thanks Lis for the fungus and the junk ;p. Enjoy our junk posts everyone!!

Cheers!!